đTurn the Pageđâ Hey [FIRST NAME GOES HERE], Last week I shared about my nightly 2-glasses-of-wine habitâand how it kept me stuck in a life I knew wasnât right for me anymore. Please understand, I am NOT trying to say that everyone can (or necessarily needs to) quit drinking this easily. Iâm not even saying I never indulge in a glass of wine anymore. But that pattern? That often? What it was doing was taking away JUST ENOUGH discomfort so that I could continue show up day after day and do it all again. Exhausting, right? Maybe even sounds just a little familiar? Hereâs the truth: breaking that pattern didnât magically set me free. (But you knew that already, right?) What really moved the needle was deciding to replace it with something that actually fueled me. For me, at first, it was literally just SILENCE. Spending time with my eyes closed, listening for that little voice. (Spoiler: it was MY VOICE.) And really caring about what that voice had to say. What it was I ACTUALLY WANTED when I wasn’t chasing away the discomfort of WHAT WAS. Then, it was writing. Journaling at first. Then my story. Where I started. Where I was in that moment. Then âone dayâI heart that little voice begin to whisper: what if this could be my work? Here is the part to tune in to: Because I wasn’t numbing that voice, because I was both wide awake to what wasn’t working AND to those little nudges of but just what if…? Where I used to dismiss those nudges, that voice, as delusions of grandeur… as maybe for someone else’s life who hasn’t pigeoned herself into a life sentence of teaching… All of a sudden, my eyes and ears were open, and I could begin to see it as a real possibility. â
That shiftâfrom numbing out â to creating â was the beginning of being able to see everything Iâm doing now. And hereâs the reminder I wish someone had given me back then: đ Itâs not about being stuck or even what youâre quitting. Itâs about what youâre starting. So if you feel stuck in a cycle that doesnât serve you anymore â ask yourself: what tiny creative spark could I swap in instead? Because one small swap can reroute your whole story. âMeredith ⨠P.S. Hit reply and tell me: whatâs one cycle you’d like to release yourself from? Even better: what’s one little spark youâd choose instead? |
The quiet habit that held me back for years
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â đTurn the PageđHappy Friday, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]! â I want to talk about some of the ways we keep ourselves stuck. Because they can be habits that are hiding in plain sight. Iâll warn you, todayâs share is a bit vulnerable. Itâs a thing I donât talk about much. But if Iâm going to be transparent about my journey From Classroom to Copywriter, I canât stay silent about this part. Teaching TBH, was not something I set out to do orginally. I kind of âfell into itâ by default. I didnât really know what else I wanted to do. And, well, summers off? Sounded good to me. (LOLâIYKYK). I taught from 2006-2023. That’s 17 yearsâ in case the-math-on-a-Friday of it all ainât happening. â
From the first month of my very first teaching job, I knew it felt off. The energy required to be âonâ all day, to manage a whole host of behaviors, and to stay on top of so much in order to ensure that each student was getting their (sometimes vast number of) needs met was something I had to dig deep for from the jump. I think I always assumed I was an âextrovert.â Until I fully understood the meaning of those words: An extrovert (as I understand it) feels energized and refueled by their interactions with people. They find energy in a group. An introvert, often feels exhausted by a lot of interaction and refuels or draws energy from time alone, in quiet. While I now understand that most people sit somewhere along this spectrum, it turns out that I sit much closer to the introvert side than the extrovert side. I would finish my work day feeling SO INCREDIBLY DEPLETED there wasnât much I could do. Work out? Definitely not. I literally didnât even want to talk to other humans. My first year teaching, I was easily convinced to head to the bar after a long day at school. I would have a few glasses of wine. End most nights crying. I knew I wasnât OK, and, I did nothing about it. Everyone around me was doing the same thing (OK maybe not the crying). Eventually, pretty quickly, I realized I couldnât go to the bar like that. But I also couldnât do much else either. My running/workout habit? Non existent that first year. Most weeknights, all I wanted do was sit like a vegetable on my couch. And what was my almost constant companion? A glass of wine. Or 2. Half a bottle of wine most nights of the week. This felt like a completely normal thing for me to do. I would tell myself, at least Iâm not at happy hour anymore like the rest of my colleagues 3 nights a week. I functioned “just fine.” I stayed busy. I shoved aside my knowing that this wasnât what I was meant to be doing anymore. I had another glass of wine to quiet the noise. When I had my daughter in 2019, I couldnât keep up that lifestyle. Not entirely anyway. But in 2020, a year into her life (exactly a year actually), the pandemic hit. And then everyone was drinking too much, eating too much, using all sorts of perceived “comforts” to compensate for the loss of normalcy in any way we could. But when we rounded summer of 2021, things started to crack a bit. I decided to stop drinking that summer/fall. And when I wasnât drowning out the voice inside of me anymore, it got very LOUD. Suddenly I could see and feel all the ways my life had stayed on a track that wasnât mine to ride anymore. By October of that year, my soul was screaming at me. I was enraged by so much I had spent years trying to ignore or rationalize. It didn’t seem rational anymore. And promised myself I would begin building something different. The thing is, I didnât see myself as someone that had a âdrinking problem.â But I absolutely was using it as a way to ignore what I knew to be true. It was keeping me stuck in ways I couldnât see or hear until I cut it out. And when I did? What started out as a firey rage, quickly turned into a productive burn. And my belief in myself and what I was capable of filled the empty space that was left behind. Please know Iâm not saying you have to give up your nightly glass of something. But I am saying that if you know youâre unhappy, if youâve even heard a whisper of something from deep inside that says: âŚthere is more for you on the other side of this⌠It might be worth exploring if itâs true. Iâd love to know if this resonates with anyone. Hit reply and tell me where you are on this journey⌠I read everything single email and would love to chat. Sometimes just saying something out loud (or writing it on the page) is the tiny first step that can launch something much, much bigger. Have a restful weekend, friends! I’m here if you need someone to remind you of what you’re capable of. MC |
Don’t forget to celebrate your milestones â¨
From Classroom to CopywriterHere’s the thing, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]: Sometimes milestones sneak up on you. You donât notice them coming because youâre so deep in the day-to-day grind â deadlines, kid drop-offs, laundry piles, zoom meetings. And then BAM đĽ you look up and realize⌠youâve actually circled back to one of the things that once felt completely out of reach. I had one of those milestone moments this week when I was a guest on The Copywriterâs Club podcast with Rob Marsh. This was one of the voices in my ears as a teacher who wanted OUT. Like, âif I can just figure out what these people are doing, maybe thereâs a way for me too.â â
And now? I was on it. Hereâs what we talked aboutâŚ
It was surreal. It was affirming. It was one of those moments that made me think: Oh, all those nights I spent googling âhow to get clientsâ after negotiating my daughter into bed and staring down the pile of unpaid work I still had to do werenât wasted. They brought me here. And if youâre in the middle of that transition right now â whether itâs from the classroom, or from one career into another â I just want to remind you: those podcasts youâre listening to, those notes youâre scribbling, those late-night dreams you donât tell anyone about yet? They matter, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]. They stack up. Theyâre your breadcrumb trail. This week, I got to walk all the way back to where mine started and wave at my younger self. â
And honestly? It was pretty damn cool. Interested in listening to the pod? You can check it out here, or below: â
Interested in the topics? Stay tuned. Iâm going to break them down here over the next few weeks to offer more insight into why you already have what you need to make From Classroom to Copywriter. Meredith P.S. If youâre a teacher (current or former) whoâs curious about copywriting, Iâd love to know: whatâs the ONE skill you feel most confident bringing from the classroom to this work? Hit reply and tell me â I bet itâs more valuable than you think. |
Pomodoro didnât save me. Hereâs what did.
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Hey there [FIRST NAME GOES HERE], It’s no secret that I talk a lot here about how hard change can be. Sometimes changing something is as simple as a âquick fix.â But much more of the time, you need input from several different people (+ several years to process it all đ) to make lasting change. For me, figuring out how the F%^$ to manage my own time in a way that MOST BENEFITS not only the business but also THE LIFE Iâm trying to build has been REALLY, REALLY CHALLENGING. Iâve listed to all the podcasts, read all the blogs, Iâve even paid people money to help me understand things I feel like I probably already knew about myself. But so it goes, Iâm beginning to notice. Itâs possible that if you are a person with unlimited time, unlimited resources and unlimited BRAIN SPACE (hello parenthood) you might be able to get there on your own. For me? I needed A LOT of help. One of the coaches I work with did a VERY TIMELY masterclass last week on how to manage dual sides of your business without exhausting yourself. (Does she live in my head? Maybe. Is she good at what she does? DEFINITELY.) **SidebarâI will never not be coached in some way on this CRAZY business ownership journey. Itâs an investmentâa pricey oneâbut having someone thatâs ahead of you on this path and see the things you are still blind to? ITâS FREAKING PRICELESS. I wouldnât be where I am today without the coaches Iâve worked with along the way! ** â
So how have I worked with this information over the past 7 days? I did what any busy business ownerâjuggling client work, business growth and (oh yeah)âthe rest of lifeâ in charge of their own time might do: I recruited AI to help. And itâs been đĽ. The trick here isnât just type, âmake me a schedule that works.â Or some boring iteration of a prompt that isnât at all personalized to YOU. The thing is (and maybe the most important thing) is that what works for one person doesnât work for someone else. And I have been trying to pomodoro my way to freedom for 3 years at this point. Is time blocking PART of my strategy? You bet. Is it the whole thing? Nope. So entering every last logistical thing I need to do in a day or a week is important. I took some time, got them all out of my brain on to paper and added them to my AI prompt. This is mind blowing for me because otherwise, I would have to try to Tetris everything into my schedule on my own âwhich is why it hasnât happened before now. â
And because I have leaned into some specific ways to better understand myself, I would be silly not to then apply those to my everyday life. For me, those things are (skip this part if you hate anything Woo-related. But also, I wish you wouldnât. Itâs so refreshing to look at yourself from all angles):
With these 3 different ways of understanding myself, plus the nitty gritty of what I want and need to get done things like:
I literally put everything I could think of into a list, and then added all of the things I just mentioned above. It offered me not only a schedule with all the details, but little ways I could weave simple rest, ritual and âwhite spaceâ for more expansive creativity. Hereâs what it looks like: â
Iâll admit, I havenât FULLY implemented it yet. But what has happened is that I am very aware of how Iâm using my time daily and where Iâm sabotaging or procrastinating specific tasks. And thatâs the first step to change. Iâd love to hear what you think! Have you ever used AI for something like this? Do you have questions? Hit reply! Iâd love to know what you like or are curious about, OR alternatively, what youâd never do! Happy Friday! Meredith P.S. This week I was a guest on one of THE podcasts that got me started in this copywriting world! It was a total honor to talk shop with a guy who has been in the biz for a long time + get to share why teachers are such an incredible fit strategic copy and content writing. It will be out next week and I canât wait to share it with you! P.P.S. Next use case will be our house work flow |
Tick tock, y’all
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Please understand that while the awareness of this came pretty quickly, and the DESIRE to change it was there, I COULD NOT MAKE IT HAPPEN UNTIL LITERALLY NOW.
Sometimes (OK most of the time) itâs NOT that we DONâT KNOW we need change.
Itâs not even that we donât WANT change.
Itâs that changing something is really f&%$ing hard.
It just is.
Here’s the thing, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]: Humans are basically a giant pattern.
Once youâre doing something for a long time, you have to take intentional steps Over and Over and Over again to create a new neural pathway.
It feels hard, because it IS really hard.
(I’m going to say that again. It FEELS HARD, because IT IS HARD.)
And that’s OK.
But Iâm on my way yâall.
To better time management that is.
Next week Iâm going to walk you through the steps Iâve taken to get my damn schedule under control.
Not so I can âOPTIMIZEâ every minutes (although yeah, I need to get more done)
But so that I can FEEL BETTER in my days and schedule in some of that deep rest my nervous system so desperately needs in this jacked up, overstimulating, modern world we live in.
Interested? Hit reply and let me know.
This is the stuff that gets me hype!
(I know, also a problem. LOL)
Happy Friday!
xo,
Meredith
